On my plight to connect the woman in the community with resources that are beneficial to their mental health well being I've actually connected with a company that is making leaps in bounds in the right direction for helping woman on their Road to Recovery when it comes to Postpartum Depression. It was my trip to Washington Dc in May that I was introduced to the company Sage Therapeutics although at the time I had no idea of what they were working on but by far the interest was there to find out. Upon my own defined research I found that they were and are currently doing a study for postpartum depression severe and moderate cases. That alone made me go even further into discovering who they are. In company terms they are a clinical-stage biopharmaceutical company committed to developing novel medicines to transform the lives of patients.
In my eyes they are the silver lining in the dark clouds that women who are experiencing postpartum depression are looking for. The work that they have been doing with this study is simply amazing. I feel that there is always help somewhere out there unfortunately its never just handed to us we have to search to find it. So for me to know what I know about Sage Therapeutics and how they are helping women with their current study I would be remise not to share with you this information.
So today I ask you a few questions. Do you know someone that needs help when it comes to postpartum depression and are from the ages 18-45, and have given birth within the past 6 months? Do you want to know more about what Sage Therapeutics is doing to help those experiencing postpartum depression? If you answered YES to either of these questions Let's Talk....... or Go to the website and submit for a consultation Send A email to firstname.lastname@example.org https://goo.gl/MfwKLJ Our Focus is truly Helping Women Heal #shadesofblue #healpingwomenheal
I am always looking for ways to help moms that are grieving over the lose of a child/children. I personally have used writing as an outlet for the bad and the good days since my daughter died. In my own road to recovery after expereincing postpartum depression I felt as though I lack a bit of closure to that trajic day on May 29, 2013.
I had emotions that I still carried and was holding on to and didn't want to let go of. To be honest I didn't want people to know that I felt that part of her death was my fault, and that I felt I should have done more and been better and so on and so on. From those feelings came the thought of writing a letter to my daughter that totally expressed how I felt about losing her and how much that changed my life and my letter also included how I vowed to help woman like myself on their personal road to recovery. I can honestly tell you that after writing that letter there was a weight lifted from me during every word I typed and all the way until I was done. It was the best decision I had made thus far.
So I want to help you mommies out there by publishing your letters and thus helping you to release at least a little of what may be holding you back. I will start posting letters every Wednesday starting July 5th via our website at www.shadesofblueproject.org If you would like to add your letter to your Angel child/children Please submit them to us via email at email@example.com We look forward to helping you with this chapter of your Road to Recovery.
With Lots of Love
Kay M & The Shades Of Blue Project
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Let's Talk Friday..... I want to hear from women of color who have experienced a miscarriage or stillborn birth........Often times women who have had miscarriages or women who have had a stillborn child or overlooked when it comes to postpartum depression. Such as in my case I was told it was grief and postpartum depression was not was I going through As to say that postpartum depression is associated with actually having a live birth instead what it really is a mood disorder that can happen to any woman that carries a child no matter the length of the time. We live in a world that sometimes see things so one-sided that many people are left to either figure things out on their on are just simply learn to live life in a way that doesn't have to be simply because a "licensed physician told them the wrong information. When It comes to postpartum depression unfortunately this is one of those times when you wish it wasn't exclusive to all but unfortunately it is and no woman is exempt from the chances of experiencing postpartum depression. I want to hear from you I know we exist and its time we stand up and be counted and heard. Take the survey and lets make change happen http://www.shadesofblueproject.org/how-can-you-help.html #ourmamasmatter #stillbirth #miscarriage #someonelikeme #shadesofblue
LETS TALK FRIDAY: There is a gap in the minority community when it comes to mental health. There has to been change in order to break the stigma that comes along with this. No longer the days when silence is golden. Silence is killing us not so softly. We must start talking about mental illness just like we talk about the hottest reality TV shows or our what we will be doing for the weekend. Start making sure your friends, family even your neighbor next door is OK MENTALLY. Check your circle of people more often, I guarantee you somebody right now that you know just simply needs to hear the words : Are You Ok? Start to Live by Our Motto At The Shades of Blue Project....."We Are So Much Stronger Together Than We Are Apart. I am the change I want to see but your support along the way is much needed. #helpsupportourmission #shadesofblue #letstalkfriday #mentalillnessisreal#postpartumdepressionisreal #wehavetosaveeachother
Being as Extraordinary as I am can often times Lead to Extraordinary circumstances. Having my 1st and only daughter be born without life is the most difficult experience that I could ever have happen to me. Through the journey I didnt always have the strength to talk about it but what I realized was that my story was something people needed to hear because It only takes a moment in time for your life to change forever #MommyToAnAngel #shadesofblue #breakingthesilence Click Here To Read More.....
I found this video very intersting and would love to get your opinions on it Let's Talk...... #shadesofblue #ppd #letstalk
Talking to one of my Mental Health Colleagues this weekend we had a conversation about mental health as whole in the black community. One the topics we talked about was how growing up we would always have that one friend with a crazy uncle, aunt, cousin etc. And how we were always just told to either stay away from them or, I quote “That’s just the Devil” or “They Gotta Pray That Demon Up out of them” or “That’s A Spirit You Gotta Rebuke That Thang Gone”. I’m sure you’ve heard at least one of these and maybe even some I haven’t heard. So here are my questions tonight:
I read an article on how African American Women Feel About Postpartum Depression And The Lack of Support. Do You Feel This Is True? I'd Like to here your opinion.
Lack of Support
When asked about their support networks, many of the women described their support
networks as non-existent, small or dysfunctional.
Examples by the women were:
“My therapist is my support network”.
“I go to counseling, go to counseling. I was going and that’s all the support and I talk to
my baby’s father (in jail) and that’s about it.”
“I have very few friends.”
Many of the women mentioned during the group that they have difficulty trusting and prefer to
be on their own because there is too much “drama” when they let people in. The women also
expressed that family support is conditional and there is fear of judgment. #shadesofblue
Kay Matthews is a best selling author and started the shades of blue project through her own personal loss. Follow the journey as she helps inspire and motivate women globally.